Pleasurements Date
A sweet smile and twinkly eyes. Carefully explore, feeling the tension prickle in the aire. Softer, harder, wetter, wilder, sweating and lust…
Connecting
Everything that happens in connection between open hearts is hot in itself! How much of yourself will you dare to lay bare? Getting to know eachother, discovering eachother’s boundaries and feel where we can grow together. The magic of sex, where we dissolve in eachother wordlessly and feel how our bodies react to one another.
Discover
Do you know exactly what you like? Or are you open to discover more about yourself? What do you feel about pleasure-pain and softly biting? Have you ever been able to completely surrender to someone? For me the most fun is in the quest we go on together, to feel where we will find a new way of loving lust.
Adventure
Thoughts cease to exist, eyes wide open to take in everything around you. A new world to play in. An adventure you wish would never end. And endless amount of enthusiasm, what will she do next? Oh, and what will I do to her next? Tasting everything from eachother, every little bit makes me feel alive!
The duration of a date is usually between 2 and 6 hours. If you want it to last longer, ask me for the possibilities. These durations can be combined with dinner/lunch to your own preference. The date will take place at your house or at a location booked by you. More information here.
It is my pleasure to travel all through the Netherlands, for this I have created zones to keep the balance between travel distance and duration of the date (see more below).
This is how you plan a dream date
*For a date longer than 3 hours in duration it would be nice to have a meal together. If you want to go out to dinner the ‘+ Dinner’ tariff applies. For a meal at your house the regular tariffs apply.
The payment can be done up to the day of the date, preferably via bank transfer. For the people that have not yet been on a date with me I request a down payment of €75,- (non refundable).
Extra costs to take into account:
- renting a hotel room or another location
- restaurant costs
- parking costs (calculated afterwards)
Travel costs are calculated within the rate.
Zone travel time calculation
No place in the Netherlands is too far away for me, with love I will travel everywhere. Though it would be nice not to have to travel for longer than the duration of the date. That’s why I divided the Netherlands into different zones with a minimal duration for a date.
Zone 1 possible from 2 hours
around Utrecht, Amsterdam, Haarlem, Almere.
Zone 2 possible from 3 hours
around The Hague, Rotterdam, Breda, Tilburg, Eindhoven, Zwolle, Apeldoorn, Nijmegen, Arnhem, Den Bosch.
Zone 3 possible from 6 hours
around Groningen, Leeuwarden, Enschede, Maastricht, Goes, Den Helder, Belgium.
Do you want to experience something new or unusual? Feel pleasure in ways you have not yet experienced yourself? Well.. I offer you the possibility to endulge yourself in lovely kinks and sexy ways.
En we beide goed kunnen voorbereiden. If you would like to experience one of the options below, let me know before our date so I can bring the right tools and toys. And to make sure we can both be well prepared.
Pleasurements Specialties
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Sensory play is all about stimulating the senses for an intense and exciting experience. Think about using blindfolds, soft materials like feathers, oils, ice cubes and lightly spiked items to discover new sensations. It toys with excitement, touch and pleasure, making each moment extra special. It’s a perfect opportunity to wake your senses and enjoy a unique experience.
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An erotic massage is an invitation to completely let go and surrender yourself to pure sensual attention. With slow, tempting touches I will explore your body, while tension makes place for deep relaxation and building pleasure. Whether you want to give or receive or a combination of goth, it’s all about mutual connection and fun. Together we create an intimate experience in which your wishes and boundaries are the center of attention.
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The body as your plate to nibble from. Sprinkle it with powdered sugar, honey, whipped cream, fruit, chocolate sauce or ice cream. And you only finish when you fully clean your plate.
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Shibari, a Japanese form of bondage, is all about elegantly and sensually binding the body with ropes. It combines visual beauty, intense connection and playful surrender. For many it will open the door to deeper intimacy, a higher sensory tension and discovering new sides of desire. Perfect for those who would like to discover sensuality, trust and adventure.
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Anal play contains the carefully massaging, stroking or fingering of the anus, and can also include rimming (oral stimulation). It is an intimate experience that is all about pleasure and relaxation. For me this is solely aimed to give you enjoyment, emphasizing on comfort and pleasure. The correct preparation and hygiene are always obligatory to ensure a safe and sensual experience. If you are completely new to this, please ask for explanation.
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Pegging is a form of anal stimulation where I take the penetrating role by using a strap-on dildo. It offers a unique opportunity to explore new dimensions in pleasure and enjoy intense sensations. For me pegging is solely aimed for your enjoyment and requires that you’re already familiar with anal play. Upfront we will make sure there is clear communication and the correct preparation, so we can create a safe, comfortable experience that is completely tailore to your wishes.
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Breath play is a form of BDSM in which controlled breathing is used to create tension and increase intense pleasure. It is all about temporarity influence or restrict breathing, always with mutual consent and a strong focus on safety.
Prepare yourself well!
Prepare yourself well!
Are you sure you have everything you need? Do you want to know how to physically and emotionally prepare for our date? And other tips and tricks for our adventure?
The magic that is sex
If we can move in desire, pleasure and willingness, with the connection of two people as a starting point, we have reached the highest possible goal as human beings, in my opinion. Even though we strive towards having the most perfect or beautiful version of our lives, connection is the glue that makes it all come together. With connection I mean the thing that cannot be expressed with words. It lies beyond our practical thinking, will nestle itself in between all the cells of our bodies and is no longer expressed in a few simple sentences.
And what is more lovely than having a willing interest in eachother, in both eachother’s brain and body? That being purely because there is a desire to meet eachother on a better and deeper level.
When talking about sex, we can see that the actions barely mean anything, unless the intention behind them is sincere and honest. A touch gets a completely new charge when it comes from a loving and open-hearted hand. This is exactly what I’m offering, sharing and receiving.