Dates to dream about

  • Slowly explore eachother

    Intimacy grows when we have the space to breathe, to close our eyes and feel every tender touch on our skin. To have our bodies dance on softness, lust and love.

    There is no reason to rush, because arousal loves that slow, playful game. It loves that first kiss you have been longing for so long. To have your hands slide over those willing bodyparts.

  • Romance without the fuss

    Butterflies in your stomach, dancing on pink clouds and a smile on your face that won’t come off for days on end. Cuddle naked between the sheets and whisper sweet nothings in eachother’s ears.

    WHile dining together while our hands are burning to feel more of eachother, you’ll tell me about the little pleasures in life. Giggling because we know really well what dessert will be. Will you come with me?

  • Also if you don't have much experience

    All this sounds nice, right? But shit, you haven’t had much chance to try any of this yet. Not to worry, with a teaching kink I would love to take you by the hand (Hands-on/face first :p)

    With a mix of nice practical insightful explanation on how to become a pro in this sexy game, mixed with simply enjoying the power of touch, willing pleasure and continuous adventure together.

  • Nog leuker dan op de foto's

    Na het doorlezen van Melinde haar website en het beluisteren van wat podcasts, heb ik besloten om deze leuke jonge vrouw uit te nodigen voor een date, om mijn geringe ervaring met sex wat bij te spijkeren. Ze heeft ook humor en dus tijdens het seksen kan je ook goed lachen met haar. En oh boy, wat kan je veel leren van Haar. Ze heeft een schatkist aan kennis over sex en mensen.

    ~ Ollie (43)

Playing in the field of sex is always a nice adventure, every time. What do you like, and what don’t you like? Where do we connect and what is just not for us? There is a lot possible that is in the “Vanilla” department of sex, and there are soms kinks that make me personally very happy. For instance feeling fingernails and little bites in my body. But nothing is obligated. Let’s explore what arises in the moment, or if there is something you really enjoy, you can always ask me.

The possibilities during our date

🍓Kissing, french kissing
🍓Soft touches
🍓Fingering, oral sex, licking
🍓Making noises and moaning
🍓Blowjobs, hand jobs, pleasure
🍓Giggling and blushing
🍓Penetration always with condom
🍓Gazing in eachother’s eyes
🍓Having our bodies dance together

  • Het geeft mij zelfvertrouwen

    Een date met Melinde voelt zo volstrekt natuurlijk dat het eigenlijk weer bijzonder wordt. Zij is opgewekt en zichzelf. Wat een date met haar authentiek maakt, is de oprechte interesse waarbij ze nooit oordeelt en alles bespreekbaar is of te organiseren valt.

    De warmte die Melinde geeft en uitstraalt geven altijd een vertrouwd gevoel. Het is ontwapenend en het geeft mij het zelfvertrouwen om te ontdekken. Elke date is dan ook veilig en tegelijkertijd elke keer grensverleggend. Melinde weet precies hoe zij mij uitdaagt om nieuwe ervaringen aan te gaan. Elke date leer je elkaar een stukje beter kennen waarbij je elke date weer de tijd vergeet.

    ~ Roeland (27)

The duration of a date is usually between 2 and 6 hours. If you want it to last longer, ask me for the possibilities. These durations can be combined with dinner/lunch to your own preference. The date will take place at your house or at a location booked by you. More information here.

It is my pleasure to travel all through the Netherlands, for this I have created zones to keep the balance between travel distance and duration of the date (see more below).

This is how you plan a dream date

*For a date longer than 3 hours in duration it would be nice to have a meal together. If you want to go out to dinner the ‘+ Dinner’ tariff applies. For a meal at your house the regular tariffs apply.


The payment can be done up to the day of the date, preferably via bank transfer. For the people that have not yet been on a date with me I request a down payment of €75,- (non refundable).

Extra costs to take into account:
- renting a hotel room or another location
- restaurant costs
- parking costs (calculated afterwards)

Travel costs are calculated within the rate.

Zone traveltime calculation

No place in the Netherlands is too far away for me, with love I will travel everywhere. Though it would be nice not to have to travel for longer than the duration of the date. That’s why I divided the Netherlands into different zones with a minimal duration for a date.

Zone 1 possible from 2 hours
around Utrecht, Amsterdam, Haarlem, Almere.

Zone 2 possible from 3 hours
around The Hague, Rotterdam, Breda, Tilburg, Eindhoven, Zwolle, Apeldoorn, Nijmegen, Arnhem, Den Bosch.

Zone 3 possible from 6 hours
around Groningen, Leeuwarden, Enschede, Maastricht, Goes, Den Helder, Belgium.

Be well prepared!

Be well prepared!

Are you sure you have everything you need? Do you want to know how to physically and emotionally prepare for our date? And other tips and tricks for our adventure?